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Get Married Now or after Covid-19? Part I

October 13, 2020

Coronavirus, micro weddings, and what happens after the vaccine

If anyone were to ask us back in March if we thought Covid-19 would be in our rear window by now, I’m sure that most of us would’ve answered a resounding yes. But alas, it’s fall. There is currently no vaccine, though many of drugs are in the running. Life is still going on in this strange disassociated state of mask wearing, micro weddings and cumbersome new social norms. But for many of us, San Diego included, abbreviated wedding celebrations are slowly returning to life. The ever constant question on all engaged couples’ minds is the same though. Do you get married now or after Covid-19?

But there is a new clientele in the wedding market that wasn’t previously in March. Welcome to all those newly engaged during Coronavirus! These lovely couples are in a slightly different position than the others they join. The original couples are the ones that are already postponing their celebrations, whether it be their first or second. For some, it’s more like a Hail Mary third try when trying to plan.

Regardless, all of these brides and grooms have the advantage of seeing what has happened to others before them. They now have a choice to make. Get married now with a micro wedding, or wait until after Covid-19? This is a very popular question that I am getting asked almost daily, so I thought it best to lay out some pros and cons for all the intrepid couples out there. And if you’re new to the term, micro wedding, check out this article from Brides, that will get you up to speed.

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Disclaimer: One Size Does Not Fit All

I just want to put a small disclaimer in here ( I think my sister’s law degree is rubbing off on me!). As we look at some of the pros and cons of waiting or forging ahead, keep in mind that everyone’s situation is a little different. Your location, age, and family situation can present different factors that may or may not be mentioned below. Stay tuned this week as I break down all the pros and cons. And until then, take a peek at my article on how to plan a wedding during the pandemic.

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Far far away, behind the word mountains, far from the countries Vokalia and Consonantia, there live the blind texts. Separated they live in Bookmarksgrove right at the coast of the Semantics, a large language ocean. A small river named Duden flows by their place and supplies it with the necessary regelialia. It is a paradisematic country, in which roasted parts of sentences fly into your mouth. Even the all-powerful Pointing has no control about the blind texts it is an almost unorthographic life One day however a small line of blind text by the name of Lorem Ipsum decided to leave for the far World of Grammar. The Big Oxmox advised her not to do so, because there were thousands of bad Commas, wild Question Marks and devious Semikoli, but the Little Blind Text didn’t listen. She packed her seven versalia, put her initial into the belt and made herself on the way. 


If there is anything that we wish could come true, it would be that we could go back and relive that day again...with Kim at our side every time. By the end of our wedding Kim was more than our wedding planner, but a trusted friend who will always remain dear to us.

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To say Kim planned our wedding would be an understatement. She crafted an experience that was a true reflection of us, executed with artistry and grace. She didn't just make our dream wedding come true—she made it into a reality we could have never even dreamed of.


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